The Practice of Receiving

I used to believe the old saying: “It’s better to give than to receive.” A classic, type A personality, I dove into giving with gusto, convincing myself I had to give to everyone who crossed my path. In theory, it sounds selfless—what better way to create a nicer world?  In practice, I said “yes” to …

The Power of I Don’t know

From the time that we are young children, our elders teach us that certainty is security. We are rewarded for knowing the answer that our teachers, parents, friends, and society at large expect. In uncertain times, people gravitate towards those who claim to have answers. It relieves anxiety to have someone confidently declare ownership of …

Advice from A Genius

Reflecting on all that is going on in the world at the moment — severe weather from climate change, a pandemic forcing quarantine, widespread economic uncertainty — it is clear to me that the global community is taxed with finding solutions to a set of escalating challenges. The novelty and severity of the issues and …

What’s Your Bias?

November 23, 2020 In the Alfred Hitchcock classic Rear Window Jimmy Stewart plays Jeff, a photographer confined to bed with a broken leg, who spends his days looking out the window onto a courtyard. Amused and bemused, he observes his neighbors, witnessing various displays of behavior from silly to unseemly, eventually using his observations to …